At the rate that we are discussing this, r_grayjoy will start screaming blue murder~
Hahaha, no way! I would venture to guess that most authors love it when discussion of their fic breaks out in the comments. First, it's flattering that anyone found the fic interesting enough to discuss, and second, it lets us know if elements of the fic came across the way we intended.
In this case, I think the two of you have pretty much hit the nail on the head. Will they get together or won't they? Well, the important thing is that it's at least possible, now that Harry has taken the time to find out who he is and what he wants, and there are no longer any obstacles in the way. And I'd say the fact that Harry went to the trouble to find Snape again is a pretty good sign. ;)