it's too complex and maybe it really is not necessary to put it into words, (unless you are going to write a poem about it...).
*laughs n laughs* Can I just tell you--you are too funny?? Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to write this fabulous comment--I'm really thrilled you enjoyed it! It's quite interesting to me to read about how different readers saw the situation. I'm glad you could see it both ways; I can too! :D Although I do admit that my own take (and I really think there's room for all interpretations) is that Harry really didn't know; that if he had known he would've reacted differently.
Likening this to a piece of art is a major compliment to me--thank you again for your very kind words. ♥