"It is definitely healthier for both of you, if you can get along and let go of any resentment or bitterness," Gaius said quietly. He'd seen what Serenus had gone through with the break up with Ian, and he knew how much it had affected his brother for a very long time. "You're too young and have too much life in front of you to let one failed relationship cast a pall over your ability to love. You should be able to enjoy it, enjoy life and experiment without worrying about things."