Yes, it makes me happy to be taken out of the Damsel in Distress role and given some autonomy at long last. Perhaps I was a 'mean git', but at the time, I felt like I had reason to be.
As for your Daddy Issues, you thick-headed prat, just because you took up with me doesn't mean you didn't want to shag Sirius and whoever else as well. (I noticed you said "men", so I assume there are others, which naturally I find intriguing. Anyone I know?) The two things aren't mutually exclusive. I suggest you look past your knee-jerk denial and examine what's really going on in that white knight psyche of yours.