But that was the thing wasn't it; Steve wanted to know every single thing about everyone Tony had been with before. Not because it would do him any good, or because it was important he just somehow wanted to know. But at the same time he didn't, mainly because more of those people weren't people who stayed or people Tony actually knew beyond cute blonde from some party maybe Lydia maybe Erica hard to know. But Simon hadn't been a maybe anyone and Steve could see Tony knew that.
Steve had been waiting for Tony to still his hands, wanting to talk so when he didn't, well he kept on. He unfastened his pants, working them down over his ass and then his legs, tugging them free and tossing them to join the rest.
"It doesn't make you a terrible person to ask, you can, you should ask me anything always," Steve said and he meant it. There were no secrets and Steve wanted to give him the answers to any questions he might have. "Simon, he's an architect and he lost his husband after Thanos," he explained. "It's one of the reasons I started the support group, I knew he needed it."