Do you really think that if you'd ever wanted to have a child that I wouldn't have also been perfectly happy to share one with you? If I could or actually wanted to, I mean, neither of which are in play, but for the sake of the hypothetical. Do you really think if we watched the world end and you said "Nat, I'm tired, I'm done, I want a kid and a little piece of safety, what do you say?" I wouldn't have said "sure, I'm in"? That wouldn't have taken romantic partners out of the equation for you, so why is this different?