Okay, so I was gonna hold off posting here until I had a better idea of how I wanted to revamp him, but I think talking it out with people is helping more than trying to do it on my own. So here I am!
David here has been a widower for about three years now. He has a son who's just started college and is now left to figure out what he wants from the rest of his life. He's dabbled with men growing up but was never out and proud about it. That all stopped when he married his best friend after getting her pregnant. Since her death it's been hard for him to get back into the dating scene, since he was never really in it to begin with. He's a traditionalist, so the thought of sleeping around with no previous connection is a foreign concept to him. However, he is vastly approaching a midlife crisis, so that could very well change.
As of right now I have him working in law enforcement, though that could be subject to change. I'd love to hear any and all ideas you might have for him to help me decide where he'd fit in best!