Yes, well, my patience for "people do something stupid because the genre requires it" happens to be at a low right now.
Seriously. I want to see an Orpheus story where the leader get their loved one out safely because they know how this works, and have the logic and willpower not to screw it up. Because looking back is the one guaranteed way to fail. If you get out of Hell and they still aren't there, that's a separate problem.