Huh. I think I must have missed the email notification for this comment back when I posted this, because there is no other way I could have failed to say AMEN TO YOU SIR. Just, precisely, to all of that.
I've been slowly trying to excise sexist terms from my own language over the years and while yes, it's really, really hard - "bitch" especially is almost impossible to get around - it's doable, particularly in writing when you have a chance to catch yourself, re-evaluate, and change what you've put down. And there's no excuse for not paying attention and making that effort when writing Wonder Woman, of all things.
(The slag on TJJ, TBH, actually strikes me that way as well - not just because Cassie's about to use said ubiquitous very gendered "bitch," but because the whole structure of that conversation is so very the opposite of the Wonder Woman ethos - that old familiar "gush about the guy's sexual merit while cutting down the girl as failed competition" thing. Also, I cut the conversation in the invisible plane on the way to Sebastian's hideout, in which all three of them gush about their respective male crushes in the most awe-inspiring violation of Bechdel's I think I've ever seen. Not like any of this is shocking considering the whole Trevor Barnes thing, but still, worth pointing out and being sad about.)