You'll get there. We're all from vastly different places with all sorts of different situations and rules.
None of us realized it was a lie or a trick or whatever it was.
If you try and hurt me again (whatever the reason) probably rather high, but otherwise you're safe. She's lost so much not only in her home world but here too, she's protective of the people she cares about. Don't worry though, I'll talk to her.