I was pretty much the same there as I am here. The only difference was that I was engaged and now I'm not. Oh and Steve and I had been together for a lot longer there and I had a twin sister which was nice.
But I know the way things were there weren't easy for some people. Or rather how the way things there have impacted things here hasn't been easy.
I guess it's hard to say if they were us or some possible version of us.