Re: [LATER...]
Mm... there's a certain level of give and take in these kinds of things. Everyone has to do some of both, nothing works if one person tries to only take or only give.
Whatever works out between you two... I'm probably not the one to help you. Not with as bad as things ended up for me. All I can really tell you is that you need to think about her feelings, but she needs to think about yours, too.