That. Is. Putting the blame on us. Saying that our actions . . . That's putting the weight on our shoulders. It doesn't matter how much you say that's not what you're doing.
That is exactly what you've done. What good did saying it do? What's it supposed to change? Am I supposed to forget everything she's done to me? Pretend it didn't happen so she can reflect something better? I FUCKING CAN'T!
So tell me! What's the use of telling anyone this?!