Do you not understand how threatening you make yourself? You constantly give off the impression that you're here to make things go your way, and that you might just go do things your way even if we decide otherwise. Like I can't reach you if you feel strongly about something, even if I'm trying. And if I tried to express that, you'd insult me or talk over me, instead of trying to understand what I'm saying. And then I'm the one that's being condescending and aggressive.