You have to be told because you keep losing sight of it. Sitting quietly in your room like that... It doesn't matter how many times you mess up, or how badly. Everyone here has done terrible things too, it's not just you. But feeling sad about them, for a while is fine, but to stopping forever isn't just making a mistake. It's giving up completely and never taking responsibility for what went wrong.
...I made a mistake, and it killed my mother. I cried so much, but that didn't help her. So I'll fight and struggle and find a way to restore her, even if I mess up again. I probably will. But giving up isn't an option. You have to keep working hard, Daisy.