Re: [not too much later]
You have history, and he loves you! We're different people, of course he acts differently! I know completely well how much he can hide --! It took me ages of asking the questions and making the demands that you are not asking him to get him to be remotely honest with me. Please do not make assumptions about the pulse of our relationship!
Stop ignoring what I'm saying, and ask him your questions to his face!