When I was a child, my village was embroiled in war with another one. As all my adult relatives were busy, I was given to the care of an older cousin. He was not my best friend then. We were sent out for a walk so we would not be in the way, just before my village was attacked. A passing jounin got us both to safety, but we were stuck alone among strangers until the attack had been fended off. My mother greeted us as we left the shelter.