Re: [Later]
I believe each thing has a time and a place, and what you will be delivering, is what I can only assume is catastrophic news before she has even gotten to know who she is.
And once I have heard it, whether she wishes to or not, will be difficult to filter my own impressions without that information in the way.
You assume she has not begun to piece together, from your own ill controlled reaction, what type of news you bring, even if the subject is out of hand.
Further you assume that I would not discuss such things with her, such as this meeting and her resolution, which is to be forthright, insulting given that this is barely moments into our introduction and I did not simply close the door and request you leave.
When she wishes to know, you may tell her. It may be ten minutes from now, or it may be days. But forcing that level of knowledge on someone who has none, is cruel, don't you agree?