I can think of a number of solutions. I don't know if it's that you're too blind to see one that's sitting right in front of you, or if you're too proud, but either way, put your temper away if you want my cooperation. I find the perpetuation of feuds to be petty and useful to no-one, though neither do I place the blame squarely on your shoulders. However, those sort of things have to fall away, if there is intrigue afoot—I just need to know if you're committed to allowing that to happen, or if it's something you'll stand by until you feel slighted.