It's not like... this place isn't high stress, or anything. I get that. It's... more often than not, high-pressure, awful situations. And just when you think it's going to be all right, or just when you think you've got the hang of it, something worse comes along to prove you wrong.
So it's not like I can just tell him to "relax" in this sort of situation, because I understand his feelings and there's no way he could, but...