"Honestly?" Carmel said, shoulders lifting, "I think it depends on the person. I met a girl in the support group I was in, and she was harrassed and nearly raped but the attack was stopped before it could happen, and it traumatized her enough that she had trouble with her boyfriend even putting his arm around her." She took a faint breath, then let it out and continued in a soft, even tone. "I was held and raped several times, and I was mostly okay with being with my fiance after awhile. Yeah, I still have trouble with some things." Sleeping, nightmares, night terrors. "But everyone is different, and they react to different things in different ways."