is it okay for people just to not get along and not try to ruin communities and friendships and lines over it? or are we so totally desperate that we can't allow for the fact that we just did NOT gel well?
when does it become a personality clash and not just 'this person is toxic'? i've seen many fall outs over the simple fact that people did not get along, and i don't think either party is toxic. in fact, some of the best friendships i still have come from NOT listening to the hype and anger because guess what, i actually got along with them. it's sad how people are instantly canceled on this server because of a disagreement and instantly everyone wants 'pm to avoid'.