A part of me thinks everyone has been so burned on this server that they’ve all acclimated to acting this cold because it’s easier. So long as they get their fix. Because they’ll sit and complain about the same issues and problems but then turn around and drop you for the faceless ip address that you are.
I’m glad I’ve found people who are willing to talk through things like adults. It took awhile, but they exist. They’re there. Don’t let the overwhelming batch of bad apples turn you away. You’re definitely not alone in this.