I hear you. I have a lot of ideas, but I really want to wait to fill lines. I think it's easier that way.
I think it depends on if they attended the same grief counselling? I imagine they live in different places, so they might've gone to one or two together and then went separate ways. I don't think Wes went to a lot of them. He really can't like..look at Jude's family. But I agree, throwing them together works, too.