Re: Selina K/Robert B
I'm relatively new to the concept, but I'd say someone who you can lean on, and be the same for. Who you can trust, and seems to like you for who you are. Someone who makes you feel better being around. Someone who can make you laugh when things are grim. I mean this is a good friend. I think there are less intimate friends who you can get along with well and have parts of this, but not all of them, and still matter.
I think they've been communicative about Becky, so that probably will happen.