Re: Dick G/Bruce W
[...] You don't want to hold her back. She hasn't experienced as much as you, or what the Barbara you knew did. Have you talked to her? Do you know what she wants to do once the baby is born?
It's an understandable fear, that if you're both out risking your lives... something might happen. But you don't have to give up everything that makes you you. There must be middle ground.