Re: Bruce B/Jason T
The two of them aren't around, but you're still following through. In their memory? Or for your own reasons now? Generally I find that it's easier for people to stick with something if they want to do it, for other people sure, but for themselves too. Otherwise it'll always be about keeping up to their expectations and probably failing. I cut myself off from most people, so I didn't have them to keep me focused.
There's this villain on our side who is responsible for a lot of deaths. He wanted to take over our world and subjugate everyone to his rule. The Hulk had a chance to kill him and didn't, because there were a lot of aliens during the invasion to focus on instead. But now I regret he didn't, because Loki will inevitably get into trouble again and hurt more people. I'm not exactly the right person to talk about moral relativity.
I don't think there is any way to know, but I guess what matters is what you think about it. If it's something you can put behind you. And I'm not, I don't have the temperament to be a shrink. Or at least I thought I didn't, but apparently being non-judgmental makes people more comfortable talking. It's fine by me, I understand these are difficult subjects and not everyone will just listen.