Re: Bucky B/Sharon C
Of course she's not the only problem, but we can't fix all those today. We have to deal with one thing at a time, man.
I think you're more of a team player than you give yourself credit for, I've been on a team with you. But in general, what I'm talking about is the complete lack of impulse control across the board. I understand what you're saying, I do. And team building exercises would be great, but right now our friend is being obtuse and because we give a shit we're going to try and help her.
[...] but
[...] In general the impulse control problem will always remain, but the communication problem has to stop. We all like our secrets, but when it comes to things that effect the team, or decisions that may effect the team, there's a responsibility to share. Not everything, things are on a need to know basis.
Maybe a team doesn't always like who makes the need to know decisions, but the team members have to understand them just the same. And take the aggression out with snark and sarcasm rather than blatant disregard for each other.