look. you can see it how you want. you're more qualified than me or maybe you see it different. that wasn't rape. someone was home and actively consenting. wasn't the same person who woke up today which makes it different but it wasn't rape during and it doesn't mean you did wrong shit. they got a right to feel shitty. hell I didn't even think about it. But we were there. We consented plenty. And whoever was in my body, they consented plenty too.
But rape isn't about what we did, sweetheart. You didn't hurt her. nobody hurt me when I was me because I wasn't me during. That doesn't mean I don't hurt but it means no one was choosing to do it.