Re: Bruce B/Gwen S
I think you find the middle ground, Jason gets weird when I talk about things that are too serious. So I call him James Dean, and I joke about his skills, and when he feels relaxed I'll ask him something real, and then I'll joke again. It's work, but he's opening up to me. It's not like Peter, who likes me to be direct, or Harry, who likes me to avoid anything real altogether. You have to find her middle ground. Has she found yours?