Re: steph/lin
Look, every family is fucked up. That's how families are. But, again it's not zero-sum. Someone can have a baby and everyone can be happy about said forthcoming baby—and someone can get married, and there's enough fucking congratulations to go around.
I realize this might make you feel badly, which isn't my intent. But! I don't want you to think it's okay for people to forget about you, because, uh, it's not.