Re: Sam A/Penny R
I didn't mean you should tell me. I get he just met me, and he's not going to tell me all the details of stuff. I'm not the girl he's into, and I get that too, ok? I didn't ask you to tell me stuff he shared with you. I meant you just pretended I didn't say anything, yeah? And I was asking if that's how you two do things, just not say shit. Of course he said it was too fucked up. He's ashamed about it, yeah? He's a guy who's all about his masculinity. He's going to be embarrassed about it. Anyway, it was just an example of what you been doing in this convo, yeah? Instead of making it about actual stuff in your friendship, you make all this martyr noise. Stop doing that. It's not doing any good for you to say how much you suck. No one should ever say stuff like that about themselves.
Baby, this guy doesn't want you telling him what he needs to do. Maybe taking things one at a time isn't going to help him. What if I told you what YOU needed to do in order to feel better? I'd probably be wrong, yeah? Listen. Maybe he needs to listen too. [Pen.] But if you were scared of him, then why still be his friend? If you thought he was going to KO you?
[Pen.] How did caring about him ruin your relationship? With someone else, you mean?