Re: Louis D/Cris M
[...] I believe that Sam cares about you. But I also believe she's always going to need a lot of time, and if that's time that you'll never be comfortable with, if it's always going to eat at you when you try to move things forward before she's ready and she says no, then I think it's worth weighing, for yourself, what that means for you going forward. If you can be happy while waiting, wonderful. If waiting will make you miserable, then [...] well, think it over.