Re: louis d/meredith j
That's a very different thing than leaving completely. I thought at first you just weren't at home, until I realized you weren't coming back. You don't need to move out for me to be able to spend time with him.
I'm not going to bother arguing this with you. I've already heard Sam's side. I know you're twisting what happened to make it a better victim story for yourself. I know she's not perfect, and I know she made a mistake, but I also know it didn't play out the way you're implying, with her blocking your way like a football player and badgering you, because I know what state she's been in.
I can't tell you what to do. But I can tell you that breaking up with him because you think maybe it's not working is one thing, and running off to a potentially dangerous door is another. If you're not sure what to do, talk to him. He's thick about relationships, but I'm sure he'd rather talk to you than hear you left rather than initiate a conversation like adults. And he shouldn't have told you it was alright for you to go, he was in the wrong there. When someone passive aggressively offers to leave so you can spend more time with someone else, you're supposed to tell them that they should stay and everything is fine. I'm not even being sarcastic, that's part of the relationship game, and he failed to hold up his end of the game playing.