Mockingbird thinks baby should hold out for a (diamondring) wrote in rooms,
I don't think my empathy is self motivated, and I don't think other people's needs and requests don't matter. I'm not saying I've never been guilty of self-motivated empathy - but everyone has been. And I'm not saying I've never put my own needs ahead of others - but everyone needs that from time to time. But as far as my values go, it's not really the Bobbi Morse way of things.