Re: Sam A/Daniel W
No. He was fucked up to begin with. It's not your job to fix him, nor his to fix you. You'd both be better off if you focused on yourselves for a while, if you ask me.
But it sounds selfish. It's what I did, and it was selfish.
A decent amount. I think no fighting would be imbalanced, or put the power all on one side, and in a partnership as in governments, that's not a good idea.
I am not sure I've had a healthy relationship yet. Maybe I'm the wrong person to ask.