"Well, Jere, don't you think it'll hurt both of them more if you string them along? It'll suck, but you may be able to salvage at least a friendship out of the one you don't choose if you make your decision quickly," he said, trying to help. He liked Jeremy, and wanted him to be happy. He also didn't want to see him hurt, which is what he knew would happen if he didn't make a choice soon.