I'm not going tit for tat with you over emotions you can go ahead and direct elsewhere, buddy. You want to play who's had it worse, you can play it with yourself. But don't think for a damn minute just because I wore that uniform for awhile it doesn't mean I lost nothing or signed up like a giddy little kid. War, empires, all the do is create misery in their fucking wake. For everyone.
Don't bring emotions to a damn bar fight if you're going to get weepy over them. Same goes for casual conversations where you pretend you know jack shit about me. I don't have time for the Lucian habit of bringing your damn baggage to every god damn conversation.