Re: anon/anon
You are very right. Do you think it is chasing if you do not expect anything from them?
Research is a polite term. Obsession may be a better word. Have you ever been with someone and knew they would never look at you with the intense desire as the way they look at certain books? There is no room in his life for romance. There is also a very large age gap that I doubt would be able to be looked over.