Re: Call: Misha B/Damian W
I do not feel I must do anything. You are careful about this, yes? Never pressuring me. It is the same as this—'anything you say I am going to take like you making me feel better.' You do not pressure me, so that it comes from within, where you know it is genuine or some such, though that is just as extreme as pressuring, I think. It means you do not tell me what you need or desire, as if it does not matter, when it matters to me very much.