Re: [Adrian M]
I wondered how long it would take for you to reach spiteful. Not very long at all.
Adrian, you say you want to speak to your closest friend. I'd start, if I were you, by examining what that means. You're intending, because you feel the need to talk, to tell a perfect stranger all about what lies between you and he. After you've been told and you have been told, enough to know it's a perfectly dreadful idea. You post widely enough that you're fishing for an answer you can cover yourself up in, one based on conjecture and assumption, because no one you fish for will know well enough to provide you one founded in cold, hard truth. And that matters to you, rather more than not causing hurt or harm to your closest friend and your brother.
I've known rather too many people like you. I've absolutely no problem telling you this, this is why you're running up against the blocks. Because Adrian, you rather think you're more important than anyone you say you care for. You're a bully. And I don't think you want to dance, March, because I'm rather better at it than you are.