That's sorta judgey for an optimist. I mean, you could have great bar-company. The conversation could be a stellar conversationalist. The couch company could already be wasted in which case, it's not awesome at all. But yeah, I think you can probably swing friendly and not-optimist. It's basically not loading your life philosophy into your introductory remarks. Hi, I'm James. I'm a 'take it as it comes' kind of guy and the friendly is implied.