Re: Cat C/Adrian M
It exists, but you can't keep trying to shove your foot into the wrong sized shoe, Adrian. I know you love him, and I know you want it to work, but you feel terrible, and you don't deserve to feel terrible. And of course Sue needs devotion. Everyone needs devotion, but he's better at pretending than you are. Sue isn't even a full person, is he? I met you two as one person, darling, and you were mostly you with a tiny bit of him.
Have some pride. Flirt him with, sure. Try to romance him, sure. But let him, or whoever you're with, come to you because they think you hang the moon. Don't change for anyone. Don't let anyone make you think you're not perfect precisely how you are. And, for the love of God, stop insulting yourself or saying you don't deserve things. You deserve good things as much as your brother does. You're equal. Don't forget that.
And, darling, if you ever say you can't get things from people who know you well? I'm going to come claw you. If you want other people to think you're worth something? You need to think it first. And even if it hurts like a motherfucker to walk away from someone who's treating you wrong? It's better in the long run. You deserve to be loved and treated right and adored, darling. And, like I said, anyone who doesn't think so? Needs to fuck off.