Re: Cat C/Adrian M
Adrian, darling, telling people to be happy in a situation when you can't possibly mean it? Sounds like a lie. Why can't you just embrace the fact that you, like everyone else in the world, sometimes feels things that aren't kind? They're there, on the tip of your pen. I can feel them, so why obscure them? And no one is going to wind up miserable on your behalf. I promise you that if they want each other? They'll have each other. That's human nature too. People aren't really martyrs, darling, they just like seeming to be.
As for competition? I told you how to compete with anyone and everyone ages ago, but you don't listen to me. The bottom line is that anyone can compete with anyone. No one is so amazing that they can't be won against, Adrian, but you have to believe in yourself to manage it. And, you, darling? Don't even fake it. I fake it. You don't even manage that. So, first thing? You need to learn to fake it.