Re: Cat C/Adrian M
You don't have to give your blessing, darling. It's alright to be angry and tell them to fuck off, and to not give a blessing you don't mean. Because, Adrian, babe, no one actually feels what you're saying. When someone takes what's ours, we get pissed. Saying we want them to be together if they want? Is air. It's not real. You don't actually feel that, so why say it?
Competition, even with a sibling, is a matter of may the best man win. Anything else? Is bullshit.