Re: Jack P/Leena B
Well it's not. It disrupted you talking about it, and I hope it's possible to continue to talk about it with someone else.
No, that's not what I said. I have absolutely no problem keeping a confidence with you when you haven't made abjectly clear doing so is to keep something from Cat. There's a distinction and I think it's an important one. One is about you and one is about the relationship between you and her and I don't like being made to do the latter when I don't think your relationship and what you keep from each other should have anything to do with me.