Re: Jack P/Leena B
Leena, my being your friend isn't in question. Putting it like that sounds like unless I'm willing to be put in an awkward position, and don't speak about being uncomfortable I can't be.
You actually brought her up. At the very beginning where you made very clear you thought it was something that would come up. There are some things where I have no idea how to navigate a conversation and I don't know what to say or how to listen because it seems like a subject on which having any understanding at all might be better. I'm not going to tell her against your wishes but I do wish you'd consider how holding a secret you've explicitly acknowledged puts me in a strained position might make me feel. That's all.