Re: Misha B/Claire J
That seems like a good time to confront your discomfort.
Your "could be" above was just as much of a "what if" as mine. I am working on controlling it for that very reason.
I know it may not be what you wanted to hear. Those are just my first thoughts when it comes to the subject. I think it is more important that you and the person you are going to marry agree on what marriage is to the both of you. What marriage is to me is not going to be the same to most people. Times change. People change. Beliefs change. As long as it is for love, then it doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks. It is meant for the two of you.