Re: Cat C/Reece E
They were together at Halloween, and he didn't know it was my Helena, despite knowing Eddie and Stephanie and all the other players. But, no, it's not martyring. I love my daughter. The last thing I want to do is make things awkward for her, and if she has to watch what she says around him? It'll be awkward. I'm also not comfortable with him knowing personal details of my life that I don't share myself, but I know that's likely to happen since Helena shares some of those details. This is the best way to handle it. And I'm not cutting him off, but we won't be having personal conversations in future. I don't think a person can be BFFs with a parent and their adult daughter.
It's me saying I'm not willing to give you up because you don't desire me. As long as you don't mind it, then I'm not going anywhere.