Re: Tim D/Damian W
It is a form of self-defense, employed when uncomfortable, just as you attempt to make jokes. No one mentioned forgiveness. One can live beside, and even form relationships with, people without forgiving them for what they have trespassed. Catalone is my sister's mother. It is to both of our benefit that we can speak. Nelson is Miller's soon-to-be husband, yet again the same goes. If you cannot rationalize it because of the people they were, rationalize it as utility and practicality. Misha says one can see the good in people, without forgiving them, without it being a denial of the bad they have wrought. If that is too much for you, do as Grandfather and Father do and imagine them as pieces on your chessboard and no more.
She is not invited, if that is the question. I do not know what we are doing, but we might congregate at the manor, if it is desired. Once this has passed, I can ask. Hopefully, Connie will continue to be helpful.
No. Do not be stupid. Take the blood and bring it back to the house. So long as you maintain and limit the chain of custody to yourself and you ensure your own standards are passable, it will make no difference.